Aestu wrote:
Amusing I didn't get categorized =)
I for one had no doubt Kay was talking about white people.
Community college is an interesting experience.
More often, I've seen the opposite side of the coin: hardscrabble lowborn students (presumably like Kay) who are way more industrious and effective than what you see at universities. I think the popular bias against community colleges is not only wrong but contrary to fact; I believe community college education is on the whole far superior to what most four-years offer.
Kay, I honestly find it extremely hard to believe what you describe purely because that kind of thing is unfathomable to me, but I have no doubt those people are as you say. It's just insane.
Incidentally, I have been looking to buy one of those young women, and would appreciate informed advice on how to go about it.
No, seriously, Kay. How would you suggest I go about buying one of those for a live-in?
My experience is somewhere in between. The system today is totally unfair to middle-class people who are too well-off to get any kind of aid whatsoever (and lose at every turn to zero-sum selections against people who get some sort of preferential selection) and not well-off enough to just pay for everything. It's even more unfair to people like my parents who have a positive net worth because of an extremely conservative lifestyle (we drove cars from the 80s, somewhere between "beaters" and new cars bought on debt) versus people who get preferential treatment because it seems that their attitude of entitlement (and massive debt load) seems to provoke a reciprocal response from so many people.
Honestly, I'm jealous of your ability to "bust your ass" in school, because I don't have that ability and I wish I did. I have always been able to get B+/A- easily enough just by brute-forcing everything with superior intelligence, fundamental skills, general knowledge and creativity, but I've never been able to work hard at school because as strange as it sounds I simply don't know how. It's an ability I've never developed. It's very frustrating.
Trust me, it baffles me to know that that's how they are as well. And if someone were telling me themselves, I might not believe it. Half my friends are posting about how they can't wait to hang out with Lucy, Sydney, Molly, and/or Mary this weekend. Which are all code names for acid, acid, ecstasy, and weed respectively.
I didn't usually have to work my ass off to get good grades. I've managed to keep a 4.0 through my first semester and my exam scores are 90-100 this semester. I don't really bust my ass as much for the exam grades, it's just the projects and papers and clinical rotations that have taken up a lot of time, which I'm not used to. I didn't have any free time at all my first semester, hence my absence. I generally will look over the book chapters briefly the day before the exam and can figure most of it out. I just find it unfair that I put a lot of time into this and they put a lot of time into being lazy and partying. It must be nice.
And I think you're right about community college. Most of my friends that tried to rub in my face that they were going to 4 year college straight out of high school ended up dropping out and work at grocery stores and the like now. Which don't get me wrong, those jobs can lead to management positions that make a pretty decent living. I just don't ever see them pursuing those positions because it would take up too much of their partying time. Meanwhile I've moved on to 4 year college, made friends worth having, and will have my BSN next summer. I'm pretty proud of myself for working with the nothing I was handed and making it this far, anyway.