Eturnalshift wrote:
This is not true. I can secure my weapons in a bed-side safe that opens with the swipe of a finger. The whole process takes a second and that second is all that stands between me arming myself when I hear a suspect noise in the house.
Are you always by your bed?
Are you always sleeping with one eye open?
Do you do a quick-draw whenever you hear a bird land on the roof?
Do you really think anyone who doesn't do this is living a more at-risk life?
Furthermore, your entire behavior is based on the assumption that you and your room are the object of this putative intruder. Why? Why would anyone make a point of engaging you?
Eturnalshift wrote:
You're assuming the only weapon I have is bed-side. Without small children in the house I can leave weapons laying in all sorts of places, despite what you say about needing to secure them all. Fact is, regardless of where I am in the house, I could be close to a loaded weapon.
The overwhelming majority of people don't do this and get by fine. If you're living a lifestyle that reflects outrageous fears that others aren't prone to, that's a sign there's something wrong with you.
Eturnalshift wrote:
The over-arching truth to this all is if I had no weapons in the house I'd be less safe in the event of a home invasion than if I had one, because there is still the chance that I would be near that single weapon... and if I didn't have a weapon, well, I'd be a sitting duck at my aggressors mercy.
"Aggressor"...why? Why would anyone commit aggression against YOU?
Eturnalshift wrote:
Even if you were to disarm an entire country gun violence wouldn't drop to zero because the people who are using the guns for malicious reasons are likely to be criminals, and criminals don't play by the same rules. I like using Washington DC as an example - they've had gun bans for decades now but there are still an outrageous number of gun-related crimes in the city. Why? Criminals don't follow the law. "I'd rather have it and not need it, than need it and not have it." I'm almost positive I'd never turn my gun on a person unless I'm truly threatened... so, until that day comes, my guns will sit idle and ready. Should I be disadvantaged when it comes to saving me or my families life just because you, or someone else thinks I might do harm to someone else without provocation?
Moot argument. It works in practice. What we have doesn't. If you doubt this go look at Columbia or Mexico or Ireland or Russia or any other country that has had or continues to have violence issues. No one seriously suggests in any country but America that weapons are the answer, and problems have invariably gotten better when weapons are traded in.
Eturnalshift wrote:
Your argument leaves room for armed home invasions to happen and for that reason I'll continue to arm myself. By your own admission, they do happen. As for why would someone want to invade my home? Why not? Maybe they think I'm an easy target because they're hoping I don't have a gun? Maybe they've been stealing mail from my mailbox and found out I'm financially comfortable, although I don't live in the most up-scale community? Maybe someone I know mentioned something about all the toys I have in my house? inb4 "Malcom X sedz..."
"Why not"? Easy target for what? You really think someone might be stealing your mail? Why yours? How often do you even think that occurs? (it's very rare for the same reason counterfeiting is rare, which is that it's one of those crimes the government takes extremely seriously and goes all Gestapo on perpetrators)
Again...it just doesn't happen. Most people don't live in fear and they get by fine.
Eturnalshift wrote:
The world is a scary place and it's full of scary people. Many of these people, for no apparent reason, can snap and have a gun poined at the back of your head without warning. They don't care about my life or the value I place on it... almost like I'm simply human filler to them. Forgive me if I appear weak to you, but when it comes to the world and the people in it, I'd rather arm myself and have a fighting chance rather than being the one staring down a barrel of a gun with no way to defend myself. Without my morbid fascination, I could be dead, my wife could be raped and my son could be gutted and used to transport drugs across the border. Yea, not likely... but, it could happen. Should either of us be faced with that day I'll be more prepared to defend myself than you would be... and I'm fine with that.
OK, so while you're at it, dig an atomic bomb shelter in your backyard, stockpile six months' worth of MREs, several months' worth of antibiotics, have on hand antidotes for all known poisons and neurotoxins, and while you're at it own a full library of technical manuals and blueprints detailing how to build infrastructure from rocks...you know, just in case nuclear war breaks out with China Russia, or the EU, or the Sun's photosphere erupts and all electronics get instantly fried, or there's a NBC attack.
All of which are theoretically possible.
Yes, if you live life as a slave to your fear, you are weak.
What you're really looking for is an illusion of control. It's an illusion for the same reason that all those other things I described are also illusions of control: should the unthinkable happen, random circumstance and common sense is infinitely more likely to determine outcome than preparations which are really just self-fulfilling prophecies.
Example: Duck n' Cover. Does anyone with a grain of common sense really think that a flimsy plywood desk is going to save some kid's life when he's in the way of a multi-megaton nuclear blast? No, it's just an irrational response to fear, a need for the illusion of control.
Another example: you have a gun. Classic case of hammer and nail, you will feel inclined to use it. What if you make an error of judgement and shoot a family member due to the sort of lapses that can affect anyone? What if the presence of a weapon incites the other party to fear or violence, when its absence would have meant the situation resolved peacefully, and your family winds up dead?
It is human nature that if provided with the means of violence, people will find a pretext for which to use them. The corollary of maintaining weapons for defense is that you've already decided that's the approach appropriate to solving your problems - which is itself more likely than anything else to cause you and your family physical harm.