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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 3:31 am  
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Gender is not a uniquely human phenomenon, and the origin, purpose and nature of gender in other organisms is well understood. You don't ask a plant or a frog or a cow what gender it "thinks" it is, that judgement is made based on physical factors.

Your argument is that we should second-guess the standard biological definition of gender because of some people's wants.

This is no different than the argument for a belief in God: "because I (or someone else) feels like there's a God out there".

And you could just as easily argue that humans ought to all put on Daedalus wings because dreams of flying are common - that because humans apparently often have an inborn urge to fly that our not having wings is a physical defect and not merely the product of the many quirks of human nature.

Some people's feelings is a pretty flimsy basis for a scientific theory.


This is all irrelevant, because the issue here is sexual identity. Sexual identity is not strictly determined by chromosomes, and sometimes a persons sexual identity is mismatched with their biological sex. Nobody really knows what causes the mismatch, but it clearly happens, and accusing people of being degenerates because of it is absurd.

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What makes you think transgendered people are defining themselves primarily by their sexual identity?


For one thing, in this narrow example, my question of how these people learned she was a tranny hasn't been addressed.


So you assume that she's a degenerate because you don't know what the whole story is?


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 3:40 am  
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Communication requires two.


It is the nature of these boards that every topic descends into political bullshit but we didn't even go one post without someone complaining that they feel inferior because someone else was brutally attacked. It is both telling and disappointing.


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:05 am  
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No one had to make this political, it just naturally is due to the nature of our society being fractured by identity politics. I don't think it's wrong to point that out and discuss it. Ignoring it hasn't made the situation any better. It's a sign of small minds that such narrow categorization have become the basis for political/social policy.

I will semi-agree with Aestu about people who define themselves by a microcosm of their life. I don't think those people are "degenerate," but what are you saying about yourself when you define yourself so narrowly? I'm not sure, it just seems weird to me. It's not just homosexuals, either. There's actually an identity-advocacy group for fat people, of all things. Where the fuck does it end? I'm a Ginger! I was born with a tail! I just don't understand the thinking that would allow someone to say "I'm 'X'" as if one aspect of what they are can define the totality of their being. I think I'd be ashamed if one adjective summed me up. Maybe it's just my vanity. I don't know, but it just seems off.

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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:20 am  
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Some of these people have been told their entire lives they're degenerates and they should be ashamed of what they were. We're in the beginning of an age where people can finally be open about who they are without the guilt and (as much) fear of being ostracized and beaten.

For the most part it's not that people define themselves as one thing, it's that society defines them by their differences. If you had conversations with someone over a month and they brought up how they liked baseball or a specific team a couple times you wouldn't think twice. If they brought up how they feel they were born the opposite gender a couple times you'd have an issue and label them. You are taking that single label and you are seeing them as that one thing.


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 5:42 am  
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Ah.

This is another symptom of the "Jerry Springer Society." Things we once kept to ourselves out of either a sense of decorum (i.e.; some things aren't appropriate for general conversation) or a sense of shame we feel we should be able to just randomly blurt out, and that people shouldn't be bothered by that, and they should, in fact, be patting us on the back for it.

Well...no thanks.

After a month (sometimes less) I don't have an issue with some "sharing" of personal details. One of the waiters that does late-nights with me is gay. It wasn't the first thing out of his yapper when I met him. He's fairly discreet about it. He brought it up one night, just because he thought I should know, and I'm fine with him. We joke about it. He'll say, "If you're ever curious..." and I say, "If I were gay, I could do better than you."

People who haven't known you for five seconds who feel the need to blurt out "I'M GAAAAAAAAAAAAY!," on the other hand, make me fucking face-palm, at least internally. I don't tell dirty jokes to random strangers for the same reason you don't just announce your preference for sausage: discretion. If we were all worried about everyone's feelings, which is the stated impetus (we want people to feel comfortable and unafraid), that wouldn't be acceptable, because it makes other people uncomfortable and (sometimes) afraid.

Oh! But wait, those people are wrong to feel uncomfortable or afraid, instead of tacitly endorsing whatever is tossed in front of them, right? It's OK to be not just openly, but obnoxiously homosexual, but if you express your preference not to have it up in your face, you might as well start preparing your testimony for the Nuremberg trial.

Again, this just proves the point, because when you realize it's not about everyone being "comfortable," but making a preferred group of people "comfortable" at the expense of the "comfort" of others....well, you might as well just divide everyone into their little groups and give the blonde-haired, blue-eyed kids gold stars, because the only thing different is which quirk of humanity you've decided to reward.

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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:01 am  
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History has shown that people who don't stand up for themselves won't gain equality by quietly enduring hatred and violence.

You're judging this woman because she's transgendered, despite the fact that her assault had nothing to do with her being transgendered.


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
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Dvergar wrote:
History has shown that people who don't stand up for themselves won't gain equality by quietly enduring hatred and violence.

You're judging this woman because she's transgendered, despite the fact that her assault had nothing to do with her being transgendered.


Actually, I'm judging the two low-lives that kicked her(?) until she started convulsing, but I guess that got lost in your fixation about weird weiner issues.

The problem is, this isn't about "equality." We don't treat any of these people "equally" if they're a part of one of the groups granted a preferred status in the hierarchy of political correctness. We make excuses for their abhorrent behavior (it wasn't racially/sexually-motivated...
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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:54 am  
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Actually, it's:

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they're a part of one of the groups granted a preferred status


because

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We don't treat any of these people "equally"


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:11 am  
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"Preferred Status"=/="Equal"

Tipping the pendulum in a different direction isn't the same as welding it in the center.

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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:12 am  
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Am I the only one who remains thoroughly flabbergasted that Aestu is a gay man who thinks transgendered persons are "degenerates"?


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:21 am  
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I thought Aestu was a virgin; not a gay. C/D?
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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:17 am  
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Laelia wrote:
This is all irrelevant, because the issue here is sexual identity. Sexual identity is not strictly determined by chromosomes, and sometimes a persons sexual identity is mismatched with their biological sex. Nobody really knows what causes the mismatch, but it clearly happens, and accusing people of being degenerates because of it is absurd.


Science doesn't accept "because some people say it CLEARLY happens" as a valid basis for a theory.

Again: why should a wish be considered a valid basis for truth?

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So you assume that she's a degenerate because you don't know what the whole story is?


My question was valid.


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:29 am  
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Dvergar wrote:
Some of these people have been told their entire lives they're degenerates and they should be ashamed of what they were. We're in the beginning of an age where people can finally be open about who they are without the guilt and (as much) fear of being ostracized and beaten.

For the most part it's not that people define themselves as one thing, it's that society defines them by their differences. If you had conversations with someone over a month and they brought up how they liked baseball or a specific team a couple times you wouldn't think twice. If they brought up how they feel they were born the opposite gender a couple times you'd have an issue and label them. You are taking that single label and you are seeing them as that one thing.

It is the nature of these boards that every topic descends into political bullshit but we didn't even go one post without someone complaining that they feel inferior because someone else was brutally attacked. It is both telling and disappointing.


When you say "political", what you really mean is, "a matter of personal opinions some of us refuse to analyze or change".

Self-righteous is not the same as righteous. You want to frame this discussion or any other in terms of "history" or "differences" or how good and evil are themes in progress through dialogue through history. But you're quite out of place characterizing yourself as one of the "good guys" of history.

No evil ever came from someone expressing an opinion in peaceful discussion. Quite a bit of evil - ignorance, superstition, bigotry - came from people who yelled "EEEEEEK HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT", whenever someone expressed an opinion too novel but also too compelling for them to handle, so they try to shut down discussion with self-righteous outbursts rather than subject the status quo to critical analysis.

And that's what you're doing. Whether you think you're right or wrong, or whether you even are, isn't the last word. The fact that you just can't handle discussing some things without descending to the level of "BUT HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT EEEEEK" puts you pretty well into the historical category that includes people who couldn't handle debate over a theory that the world is more than six thousand years old.

You want to talk about the history books - don't underestimate the mistruths backed up by self-righteous outrage.

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Ya know what's real fucking pathetic about this? Someone gets beat so badly they get a seizure and your first step is to turn it into a political issue.


Violence is politics by other means.


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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2011 10:37 am  
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 Post subject: Re: So here's a thing...
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Jubbergun wrote:
People who haven't known you for five seconds who feel the need to blurt out "I'M GAAAAAAAAAAAAY!,"


if this ever happened, literally, I think my first reaction would be to rofl. That would be hilarious! Like if he came into a crowded bar and raised both arms and just yelled it? Held out the A and everything lololol k I'm done.

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Am I the only one who remains thoroughly flabbergasted that Aestu is a gay man who thinks transgendered persons are "degenerates"?


Is this actually true? If so, I think I am the last to know.

Also, I'm not quite sure what Dvegar is bitching about. Care to elaborate?


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