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Surprised no one has said this yet but;

SEX != RELATIONSHIP

SEX=SEX.


Also I'd reccomend dating multiple girls at the same time (read:dating, not fucking) so that you can get more overall experience and then as they start to cross themselves off (and they will) hopefully there's atleast one that meets your standards and if not, pick a new batch and start over.


Your goal shouldn't be to fall in love and get married, white picket fence, as others have stated, you really have no control on that. You should just focus on having fun and meeting someone you can have fun with.

Ahh, that reminds me of a story a good friend of mine was telling.

"They say there's many fish in the sea. But when I'm dating, I don't go fishing with a fishing pole. I use a fucking net."

Legit advice imo

s^ | Kay

Quoted to live my life by.

Okay, this is an addition to previous Rachael story. I send her text message after she called me and I go:

"Hey I just wanna let you know that I really hope you find what you're looking for, coz I think ur an awesome person. hit me up if you ever wanna chill "

I didn't even expect a response but she texts me back:

"Hey, you're pretty awesome yourself, and yes, we should hang out sometime."

Then she texts me again, coz the Chicago BLackhawks (shes a fan) are playing the Philadelphia Flyers (im a fan) for the Stanley Cup


"is it too early to gloat???"


WTF WHY IS SHE TEXTING ME I DONT GET IT WTF WTF WTF

sit it out.

she'll come to you.

She is not disinterested. This is a test. Do not call or text and she will likely give you the "WTF have you not called/texted" message. This was probably a test to see if you would fuck off like you were told, or if you had a pair. You pass: you have a pair. Now, it's your turn to push buttons. Don't call her, don't text her, and let her do her thing. She will start to wonder if there is something wrong (with her, in most cases) and contact you.

Your Pal,
Jubber

AKA "The Gun"
AKA "ROFeraL"

World Renowned Mexican Forklift Artiste

propose..women like guys who arent afraid of a commitment.

so yeah, ask her to marry u.

Brawlsack

Taking an extended hiatus from gaming

So I think I've decided.

That women are objects only to be used for my amusement and pleasure.
These objects vary by the woman, perhaps one of these women is a key.
And said key will change the way I perceive women.

I'm sick of bullshit but not totally sick of commitment.

So I guess shit is changing now, and more men are wanting commitment (like myself) and women are more fearful:

http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/17107205/


The U.S. Census Bureau reports single women are the fastest-growing segment of the American population, with more than 47 million, 22 million of whom are between 25 and 44. Why? Many single women actively choose to be alone, says Elina Furman, author of the new book, “Kiss and Run”. The problem is they say they want to be in a committed relationship, but then they go about doing everything to sabotage their chances for love. They’re commitment-phobes.

it's that "women's empowerment" thing.

they seem to think that to make themselves more equal to men, they have to be promiscuous. CUZ DE MENZ FOLK DO IT.

It has nothing to do with promiscuity. It has to do with not wanting the social burdens that come with being an attached woman. My sister doesn't want a long term relationship, and not because she wants to be a whore. She wants a solid career with out the pressure to drop out to take care of a home/children/etc. As my mom told the both of us, do that if you want to, but make sure to freeze some eggs.

Glass Ceiling/Mommy tax theory.

Not to say that everyone can do anything but it's been done before.
Either you put the effort forward to do so or you don't.
Yeah, it's hard. But tougher things have been accomplished by less privileged and frankly lesser men and women.

The key to success is, don't get pregnant at 18.

Yeah ok.

You can't tell me that "not wanting to be tied down to one person" leads to anything other than promiscuity.

Not that there's anything WRONG with that, depending on who you ask, but a man or woman NOT tied down will end up fucking anything they want to, because there's nothing holding them back from it.

My girlfriend got pregnant at 18, with twins, and I'd wager she's one of the most successful mothers I know.

She has a fuckton of childcare experience beforehand though, and belongs to La Leche League and various mothering websites and boards. She is insanely knowledgeable and dedicated.

/threadderail'd

Brawlsack

Taking an extended hiatus from gaming