Azelma wrote:
People who cannot support themselves or their children lean on society to do so. This is the essence of a "welfare state" that so many fear America will become. I am taxed on my earnings...and my taxes go to a variety of things...and part of what it goes to is to support people who have more children than they can afford, or who have abandoned their children and made them become wards of the state. So it's not so much that I mind paying for roads, moderate military protection (far less than what is actually spent), schools, and yes even healthcare...it's that I mind paying for people who have no business having children. Does this make me heartless? Does it really benefit society that someone from a low SAS has little to no incentive to not have kids? In fact, some argue they are given incentives to have many kids to receive more aid (perpetuating the historical cultural handicap many have been given due to oppression, and preventing them from truly rising above it)
Your taxes supporting the children of indigent parents is the band-aid solution this country is saddled with because neo-puritanical halfwit fuckfaces refuse to teach safe sex to middle schoolers, won't put condom dispensers in schools, and block morning-after pills. I get that you're annoyed, and you're right to say that this is treating a symptom rather than curing the disease. Problem is, "family values" politics are as big a contributor to this disease as the indigent parents are.
You'll never be able to keep people from fucking. That's most of the reason we exist. But if taxes were properly allocated so that fucking didn't automatically turn into children, you'd be taxed that much less.
Azelma wrote:
This got me thinking about someone in my family. She's from small town Ohio, uneducated, and got knocked up in high school by one man. The man she got knocked up by ended up having to move away, and she proceeded to meet another man and start dating him. Then the baby was born and she put the 2nd man's name on the birth certificate (not the actual father's name). Tuhl, from my understanding this is illegal. In any case, such is her lack of understanding...now I see her facebook posts about her child. She gives her child all the sweets she can have, and posts many status updates complaining how she "Can't take [her] anywhere, she always makes a scene!" Clearly this 18-year-old high school dropout who works at K-mart is not fit to be a proper parent.
Yet society will/must bear that cost and the consequences.
Can't speak about the legality of that move (I assume not), but a simple DNA test would answer the question anyway.
At any rate, no one is fit to be a proper parent until they start parenting. I'm not condoning this girl's actions, but at least she's trying to take care of the kid. Better that than neglect. And better K-Mart than unemployment.
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