Necrachilles wrote:
My commercial on that video was a Fanta video. Jelly?
Edit: That advice was both creepy and bad.
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>dating
>advice
>no mention of pihb
omg mine was too does that mean we r soulmatez?
I don't think the advice was bad, except for the part about using the public transportation being crowded as a conversation starter. Nigga plz. That is lame, there's about a hundred thousand better things you could use.
She's got a high end camera and you know about cameras? Notice it, compliment her on her choice. She'll either immediately shoot you down and think you're a creeper (which is really her issue, if she just assumes you're a creeper for striking up a conversation that most people could reasonably say is innocuous) or you will have an opening for a conversation.
She's got a book by an author you recognize? There you go.
There are literally hundreds of ways to strike up a conversation, everything mentioned in the video is pretty reasonable, but it's also arguably common knowledge among people who aren't completely socially inept.
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Protip: If your intentions are to fuck her asap and JUST fuck her, gl hf. She'll notice it pretty quickly and unless she's a crazed nympho raging for some dick, she's gonna GTFO and possibly invest in a canister of mace.
The part about trying to identify things you may have in common is extremely relevant, as well as the repeated interactions part. Commonality is the foundation for successful relationships, or even a non romantic relationship.
Repeated interactions means she'll remember you once she's run into you enough times. At this point you have established things in common as well as recognition. She's got a camera, you've got a camera back at your apartment.
A really good way to get a number is to ask her out (not be confused with "um. will u go out wit me. circle y or n.") for something really, really casual. Don't insist on paying if it's coffee or lunch or whatever, she'll think you're trying to buy her panties off of her and onto your apartment floor. Split the check, figure it out, whatev. You're not in a relationship at this point, so it really doesn't matter. If you know she likes local music, ask her if she wants to come see you make an ass of yourself at an open mic night playing acoustic. Like I said, literally a million ways to do it.
If all you wanna do is fuck her, she'll make it clear soon enough either way. You'll get laid, or you'll get shot down.
If you want a relationship, 'youredoingitwrong.jpeg'.
Don't set your sights on someone and 'want a relationship.' It doesn't work that way for marriage, it doesn't work that way for relationships either.
Really the only thing you can do is get to know someone if you have an interest in them. If you want a relationship or want to move too quickly or whatever with someone you are completely incompatible with, you're setting both of you up for failure.
1. Be tactful yet honest with your intentions. Close friend of mine will profess his undying love for a girl to get in her pants if he thinks she'll buy it. Most of them won't buy it, and you'll look like an ass clown to just about everyone else.
2. Get to know whoever you're interested in. If it's obvious you're romantically incompatible, no reason you can't be friends. It's a lot easier to be friends before you've been through a shitty drama filled relationship with someone than after.
Basically my thoughts on this.
BrawlsackTaking an extended hiatus from gaming
