Aestu wrote:
Then you're ignorant. A lot of people who did great things in their lives idled for many years for one reason or another. And clearly I'm not happy with the status quo.
I think that you're suffering from delusions. The fact you're disgruntled combined with the idea that you'll "be something someday, just you watch," doesn't make you some great world-changing figure. It makes you, at most, the typical suburban teenager. There are years of the life of Jesus that weren't recorded, it doesn't mean he was sitting on his ass. Cincinnatus didn't retire to his farm to "take it easy." Even those who didn't have success until later in life, like Albert Einstein weren't exactly sitting on their thumbs until their moment to shine arrived. Hell, you don't even have to shake the foundations of the world to be a "person of merit," but what can you say about yourself, other than "I'm not happy" and "I'll be great later," that recommends you as such a person?
Aestu wrote:
The government made it for you. Just saying.
This itself proves that you really are just typical military welfare trash. Anyone who has genuinely made their way in the world appreciates that life is neither easy nor fair nor balanced.
Ah, now see, you're not only making half-assed assumptions again, you're just being petty. When did I say I was a person of merit? I don't believe I did. People like me don't exist because the world needs good men. People like me exist because every once in a great while, the world needs a bastard. I've done three things that I consider to have been of any value to my fellow man, and the most important of those I did while I was in the military...other than those three things, I've been little more than a man of leisure. I don't feel bad about it, which is probably why I don't have to lie to myself about what an incredible human being I am (though I am a pretty great guy, or so I'm told).
"People of merit" don't hide in the background and whine that " life is neither easy nor fair nor balanced." They may acknowledge that, but they sure as hell don't allow it to become an impediment.
And stop with the "welfare" and "trash" bullshit when you discuss people in the military. It' a job, and there are a lot of intangibles involved with it that more than counter-balance any "make-work" or unnecessary aspect of it.
Aestu wrote:
You yourself just wrote a long opinion about what it takes to make a used car salesman. So you're pretty far off the mark equating "marketable" with "meritorious".
You know who I know that does use wealth as a measure of success? The guy that on occasion talks about how he's going to buy himself a harem one day. That said, was I equating the two, or were you just ignoring what was written so that you could arrive at that conclusion? Hmmm...
Jubbergun wrote:
I'm not saying commerce is a grand indicator, but I'm not aware of any accomplishments "of merit" Aestu has made...and I am purposely NOT counting 1** mounts and counting.
I think the answer to that question is crystal clear. Could we stick to how I'm literally disparaging you before we skip ahead to any metaphorical and/or imagined insults I might be making? It just makes the conversation easier to manage.
Aestu wrote:
If we lived in a Communist country, would you argue that being a committed Marxist is merit?
If we lived in the Middle Ages, would you argue that being a frothing sociopath is merit?
If we sat around and argued hypothetical bullshit, would it make you any less of a miserable human being? I don't think so, so what's the point?
Aestu wrote:
TLDR, I got mine, the world is perfect, etc. That is what your comment boils down to. That the world is perfectly fair and anyone having any difficulty must be bad. It's an inherently ignorant and small-minded viewpoint.
What does wealth have to do with merit? Many of the most exemplary individuals in history either started or ended with nothing, and some even eschewed wealth during their lifetimes. The only person boiling it down to wealth right now is you. "People of merit" don't complain that "the world isn't fair."
That is an "ignorant and small-minded viewpoint" that doesn't afflict them, but you seem to be weighed down heavily by "how fair" things are. "People of merit" don't care that the world isn't fair. They don't give a fuck. They work around it, or they change it. They don't sit behind the protective barrier of their computer screens racking up fake accomplishments in a video game to validate themselves while verbally tearing down other people of whom they are very clearly jealous.
Aestu wrote:
In answer to your question: 3Rs, intelligence, discipline, ability to follow directions, ability to solve problems, ability to work at a task for long periods unattended, integrity, trustworthiness.
I hate to tell you this, champ, but that description easily defines the bulk of society. The average person can read, write, and do math. Most people (contrary to popular belief) aren't stupid...not to say they don't do stupid things, but they're not stupid, and even stupid people can follow directions. I don't see how you're solving any problems that matter with this attitude of "life isn't fair" getting in your way, but even if you get points for that, so what? I haven't had a job or hobby that didn't involve working around some difficulties. Factory drones can work for long periods unattended, and most people aren't dishonest. Congratulations, you've outed yourself: you're everybody else, only with delusions of grandeur.
Aestu wrote:
Idk, do you have a different definition of "merit"?
I think of it in the same way that the Supreme Court thinks of pornography: I can't really define it, but I know it when I see it.
I don't see it in sitting on the internet all day mocking Azelma, or arguing for the sake of arguing, or making excuses about how you're a train wreck because of your parents, or because "life isn't fair," boo-fucking-hoo. Tearing Azelma down isn't going to make you any less of a failure, even if it makes you feel better. Get off your dead ass and go do what you already know you're capable of doing. Stop making fucking excuses. Stop hiding in your apartment or in WoW from the rest of world, accept the goddamn hardship and go do
whatever the fuck it is that you're supposed to do.
You're squandering your life. Stop it.
Your Pal,
Jubber