Weena wrote:
Or poor.
Energy tends to turn into motivation and ambition.
Maybe people aren't fat because their poor, but poor and fat because they lack the drive needed for success and fitness?
You're assuming the world is fair or full of opportunities. The world is sufficiently diverse that only a narrow-minded and ignorant person would believe this - that everywhere, there are opportunities waiting for people.
The truth is, a lot of people "don't got nothing". No one to listen and no one to turn to. No money waiting to be made, because no one and nothing they have access to has any either. Such is the nature of inner-city ghettos.
Where's the money going to come from? Pray tell - honest question here.
Do you really that that all the people born on the wrong side of the train tracks in any given city all came out of the womb unmotivated sods?
Or do you think the world's problems made them that way?
Are all reasonably successful people trim and fit? Or are a good many soggy around the belly?
Are all losers fatsos? Or is NJ filled with fitness-obsessed guidos on welfare?
You personally are not smart or motivated enough to argue that you could owe your reasonable comfort to success and meritocracy. By the same token, I myself am fortunate enough to have parents that support me financially, while denying me other forms of support. Both of us have met people in our lives who work far harder and do not - and never will - come up as good as we do or are likely to as we go through life.
Here is a question, though:
Why don't you educate yourself, about things in general, or about topics you are interested in but provably don't understand or really know about? You believe "motivation" is key to success, no? Then why aren't you "motivated" to understand the world better so you can make informed, constructive decisions in it?
It's an honest question. Doesn't that fact contradict your contention?
I mean, don't get me wrong. I do agree that being grossly overweight correlates with a particular mentality of laziness and squalor - poor trash are often that way. But you're grossly oversimplifying it arguing that both are directly attributable to being unmotivated and saying that nothing can be done, rather than looking at the problem as something that can be solved through constructive behavior.
The very reason that welfare
exists is that ignorant Americans refuse to examine these issues in terms of problems that can be constructively solved, preferring to believe that life is perfectly fair and everyone winds up where they ought to.
In reality, the reason that Weena isn't motivated to educate himself, and that poor people are fat, and that many better-off people are fat and tasteless, are all attributable to the lack of social identity in America today. Social identity makes people strive for self-actualization, of which both being educated and keeping fit are a part.