Superchat wrote:
So, if I have many female friends, and I am a Male, and the goal of our relationship was friendship and not "luv" or "secks" does it mean i've been friendzoned many times?
No. Friendzone only applies when 1 person wants something "more than friends" and the other person says "no we're just friends" If it's a mutual "we're good friends" then there is no "zoning"
Some argue that plutonic friendships between men and women are an impossibility. Others argue that men who are "friends" with women always want more, albeit secretly and they themselves may not know.
I tend to think this is horseshit - you can be friends with a woman without wanting to fuck her. That said, I bet, if the opportunity arose, and there wouldn't be any awkwardness, and it would be totally cool, no negative remifications...you'd bang many of your female friends. That's true with me - for sure.
usdk wrote:
the thing that irritates me about the friend zone is that most of the girls who abuse that shit are ONLY worth having around for bedroom activities anyway. I don't get mad about being friends with women worth being friends with.
Funny, you know guys abuse the friendzone in a different way? I know there are guys who have zero interest in being anything more than friends with a woman, but she'll be head over heels for them. And they'll bang her and bang her and never once let her out of the friendzone. For her part, she's desperate to get out of the friendzone and thinks each time they bang it might get her out of it. Alas...it will never happen. That's the female version of the friendzone. Basically, you don't get laid if you're a male getting friendzoned...if you are a woman, he still might bang you.
Jubbergun wrote:
the chick can put all the limits on the relationship she wants but the minute the guy does the same thing in response he's somehow an asshole. Fuck that.
I think you're taking specific examples of stupid bitches and applying it to all women again. This does not hold universally true. Also, stop associating with terrible women (as you've done with this one). You can do better, I know you can.