Jubbergun wrote:
Yuratuhl wrote:
I don't agree with anything that presents a double standard. The point of internet anonymity is specifically that a poster is an avatar that types words. If words are only charged with hate based on who is saying them, who can effectively police this when none of it is face to face? If gays can call gays "faggots" then I can too, not that I would. Same goes with racial epithets. If we're going to represent equality of language, it's everything or nothing.
I agree with this. If a word is so terrible that others shouldn't say it, it's too terrible to say yourself, otherwise you're just sending the message that it's really not that bad, and we're just jerking you around to see if you're enough of a bitch to do what you're told.
Your Pal,
Jubber
I use slurs almost every day. I call my friends fags (and they call me a fag back) and we occasionally toss around the word kike. Hell, I called tuhl a shitnigger when I was talking to him about some FUBU stuff and he called me fagballs.
For the record, I have gay friends (and was even nannied by a gay man for a couple years), have a "black mother" (really long story) while mentoring a black autistic kid so long he's basically my brother, and I'm half jewish.
It isn't whether or not you say the words, its all in the context. Of course I wouldn't call a gay dude a faggot unless I cleared it with him first, but there's absolutely no problem with kicking these words around so long as you aren't doing it as a direct insult to a person of that race.