Jubbergun wrote:
Hey I get the whole, "this is meaningful to me" thing, and wanting some permanent reminder of something really important. We had those when I was kid. We called them pictures.
Now, I'm just griefing you on that one, but it seems to me that a lot of these people who get tats for w/e satisfaction they get out of them, like a reminder of lasting moments, are just your average modern disconnected-from-life individual. They wanna be like the guys in the movies without actually having to be like the guys in the movies. I don't need that, and therefore don't get the people that do. Most of the "permanent reminders" of "meaningful events" that are indelibly stamped on my body are fugly scars from things I'd just as soon forget. One of the big reasons I don't go out and tan in the summer (besides my natural aversion to sunlight and being up being up before the crack of noon) is that a lot of those scars have faded, but a good tan always highlights them.
I did the whole "tough guy/action hero" thing. There's always a tougher or...more active????...guy out there. I don't need the reminder, especially now that all the action and adventure and really wild things has left me with a body that sounds like a box of Rice Krispies when I wake up in the morning. If it takes a slap of ink to make somebody feel like something they aren't...well, it doesn't matter how you feel, you still aren't what you idolize. Wasting your money and time on a feeling when you could be wasting it on becoming your fantasy seems pretty silly to me.
And people that do it to make themselves feel better about themselves...man. If that's the case they got more problems than barrels of ink can possibly cure.
Your Pal,
Jubber
yeah you're just not getting it. it's cool. different worlds and all.