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ITT:

what you say: fuck the chase
what most women hear: you aren't worth the trouble

What many men call "the chase" is what many women consider getting to know each other. Women already know you want in their panties, so there's no need to "be honest" about this. Believe me, THEY KNOW. But the getting to know you stage is foreplay. So, know what you want. You want a girl who'll drop the panties the minute you're alone? Cool. There's a place for these women. Monogamous relationships are usually not that place.


your aura: desperation
her reaction: no thanks


your aura: confidence, but not arrogance. henq exudes this.
her reaction: yes


your height: can't do anything about it, so quit hating on the tall guys
her reaction: there are plenty of women who like men your height

ITT:

what you say: fuck the chase
what most women hear: you aren't worth the trouble

When I talk about the chase. I am talking about the whole playing the dating game where we aren't sure how we stand because we can never actually get into a conversation and see if we are compatible. The chase happens before the first date or even the first in-depth conversation happens.

He is too interested in me, therefore I don't like him. He isn't interested in me, therefore I want him to be interested in me.

I don't want to try to talk someone who then thinks they should "test" to see if I like them. If I care enough to want to talk to someone and get into a conversation to see if I could enjoy having a relationship with them.

So I was thinking about Ruby Sanctum. I think it's a nice place.


But yes, the thing about the chase I don't like is that there are these "rules"

Like...you should wait 48 hours to call them because you don't want to seem "too eager"

I think that's stupid. If I like you, why can't I just say "I like you, let's hang out moar."

I guess that turns girls off? It's not like "please please date me, love me, I neeeeeed you to live!"

It's like: "Hey, I enjoy your personality and looks. I would like to be in a relationship with you and grow together. I also would like to penetrate you with your permission at a later date."

But you can't do that, you have to "play it cool" it annoys me....probably because I'm bad at putting up a douche/Joe Cool persona.

ITT:

what you say: fuck the chase
what most women hear: you aren't worth the trouble

What many men call "the chase" is what many women consider getting to know each other. Women already know you want in their panties, so

There are tons of guys out here who perfectly fit this description and I'm very positive they would have enough balls to come seek you out.