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If you're against abortion, don't have one. Simple.

I'm pro-choice, because it's my goddamn uterus and I'll thank you to stay out of my personal affairs.


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lol hai guys if ur against killin pplz dun kill pplz but don't get mad at me when I kill pplz.
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If you're against abortion, don't have one. Simple.

I'm pro-choice, because it's my goddamn uterus and I'll thank you to stay out of my personal affairs.


really that's what it breaks down to.

the catholic church believes that using contraception is killing unborn children. should we outlaw condoms, or should that be your choice if you want to follow that belief?

the old testament says that jerking off is a sin because you are spilling your seed on unfertile soil. basically the same thing. should we outlaw fapping?

the basic point is, until the child is born and can survive (breathe, eat, etc) without being bodily connected to its mother, it is not a whole being... it is increasingly a whole being as time elapses, but until that tie is severed it is still also part of the being of the mother.

where you draw the line is a matter of your personal opinion and belief, really. there is a point where the child is nothing but a collection of cells, and a point where it is a human being. clearly the old testament israelites felt that even your sperm was sacred (cue monty python).

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plus the obvious joke about akina telling anyone to get out of her god damn uterus.


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lol hai guys if ur against killin pplz dun kill pplz but don't get mad at me when I kill pplz.


We're talking about a legal medical procedure, not some sociopath hiding in an alley with a knife stabbing people to death. Please spare us the silly comparisons and playing devil's advocate about other legal vs. illegal actions.

Some people are very strongly against abortions, and its your choice to keep the child and either raise it yourself or give it up for adoption. I'm not against the idea of women carrying the baby to delivery and then giving them up. I think if you're willing to deal with the emotional, social, financial and lifestyle sacrifices you need to make to carry a child to term just to give it away, that's great. My mother was actually adopted. There is nothing wrong with adoption. There are thousands of children already waiting to be adopted, and more on the way, even with abortions happening every day. There are plenty of children to choose from if you really want a child, there will never be a shortage of unwanted babies.

I do think some people are NOT willing to go through the above, and I'm one of those people. Does that make me selfish? Sure. Does that bother me more than the abortion would? Nope.

I'll take two hours in a clinic over 9 months of pregnancy, please.

Will I have children eventually? Sure, and I'm willing to bet I'll be an excellent parent-- but not before I'm damn ready.


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Well said. How I feel without the inevitable rage.

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lol hai guys if ur against killin pplz dun kill pplz but don't get mad at me when I kill pplz.


We're talking about a legal medical procedure, not some sociopath hiding in an alley with a knife stabbing people to death. Please spare us the silly comparisons and playing devil's advocate about other legal vs. illegal actions.

Some people are very strongly against abortions, and its your choice to keep the child and either raise it yourself or give it up for adoption. I'm not against the idea of women carrying the baby to delivery and then giving them up. I think if you're willing to deal with the emotional, social, financial and lifestyle sacrifices you need to make to carry a child to term just to give it away, that's great. My mother was actually adopted. There is nothing wrong with adoption. There are thousands of children already waiting to be adopted, and more on the way, even with abortions happening every day. There are plenty of children to choose from if you really want a child, there will never be a shortage of unwanted babies.

I do think some people are NOT willing to go through the above, and I'm one of those people. Does that make me selfish? Sure. Does that bother me more than the abortion would? Nope.

I'll take two hours in a clinic over 9 months of pregnancy, please.

Will I have children eventually? Sure, and I'm willing to bet I'll be an excellent parent-- but not before I'm damn ready.


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Dek, you raise an interesting point.

Religion aside... you say a child isn't complete until it is born and the tie is severed. Is a child complete if it goes the full 40-week term and is then birthed? What if the child is born a month early? Developmentally, it's less complete than the full-term child. Now, what if the baby was born nine weeks early? Is it more complete than a child who has been in the womb for 39 weeks just because the cord has been severed? The reason I ask this is because a child, in the womb or out, is dependent on the mother (or someone). If it's OK to kill a child in the womb because it's dependent on the mother than, by that logic, shouldn't it be OK to kill a child months after it was born because it's still dependent and couldn't survive without help? What about retards or the handicapped by birth - they're often dependent on others and, in many ways, developmentally incomplete. Should their parents get to terminate them as well?

If we can agree that it's wrong to kill a post-birth baby, a small child, a teen ager or an adult then why is it OK to kill an unborn child? Because it's unborn? Because you don't see it? Because it's smaller than a baby, but a baby is smaller than an adult? Because it's convenient when you accidentally knock up some chick you were banging?
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Akiina wrote:
I'll take two hours in a clinic over 9 months of pregnancy, please.


Would you like a side of guilt/depression with that? There's a reason most women who have abortions only ever have 1.

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I do think some people are NOT willing to go through the above, and I'm one of those people. Does that make me selfish? Sure.


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Will I have children eventually? Sure, and I'm willing to bet I'll be an excellent parent-- but not before I'm damn ready.


See here's the thing...use protection. But every time you have sex, you are RISKING making a child. It is definitely selfish to take this risk, and if you conceive then say "oh, well fuck it" and then abort the child. Do you know how many people wish they could have children but can't? Life is a gift, imo. If you are having sex, you should be ready to accept it if you conceive a child...it's just selfish, and oh-so-arrogantly-human to think otherwise.



In your defense, at least you realize that it is inherently selfish. But yes, I feel that you should have the right to feel that way. At the same time, if you were to get knocked up and abort it, nothing could convince me that you aren't a murderer. :)


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Actually, God created us to worship Him.

He gave us free will so that the worship would actually mean something. If He didn't give us free will, it would be like holding a gun to someones head and making them worship you (it would have no meaning, no substance). But giving us free will allows our chosen worship to actually be substantial and have meaning behind it.

So God giving us freewill does not mean He accepts anything that happens as OK. Sinning has consequences because we choose what to do with that freedom.






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Eturnalshift wrote:
Dek, you raise an interesting point.

Religion aside... you say a child isn't complete until it is born and the tie is severed. Is a child complete if it goes the full 40-week term and is then birthed? What if the child is born a month early? Developmentally, it's less complete than the full-term child. Now, what if the baby was born nine weeks early? Is it more complete than a child who has been in the womb for 39 weeks just because the cord has been severed? The reason I ask this is because a child, in the womb or out, is dependent on the mother (or someone). If it's OK to kill a child in the womb because it's dependent on the mother than, by that logic, shouldn't it be OK to kill a child months after it was born because it's still dependent and couldn't survive without help? What about retards or the handicapped by birth - they're often dependent on others and, in many ways, developmentally incomplete. Should their parents get to terminate them as well?

If we can agree that it's wrong to kill a post-birth baby, a small child, a teen ager or an adult then why is it OK to kill an unborn child? Because it's unborn? Because you don't see it? Because it's smaller than a baby, but a baby is smaller than an adult? Because it's convenient when you accidentally knock up some chick you were banging?


that's just the point though.

state a: it is a collection of cells from the parents
state b: it is a human being

if there were a definitive point in time where a baby crosses between state a and state b, then there would be no question. but there isn't.

you can only clearly define the ends. it is most definitely just cells while the sperm are still in the testes and the egg is in ovaries or uterus. and it is most definitely a human being when it is born, separated from the womb, and able to breathe and generally exist on its own.

anywhere between those points is up to interpretation. i have no qualms with your belief of where that line is between the two states, no matter where you would place it.

what criteria do you use? biological development? what is the point at which it is a child and not an internal puddle of slime (which it basically is at conception)? when it gets a heartbeat? at the moment the sperm touches the egg? when it grows arms and legs? when it develops a gender? when it develops a brain?

surely you would come up with an answer to that question, but to ponder the question is hopefully to realize that your answer is probably not what someone else would come up with, and that you have no ironclad reason to choose that particular point in development except for what you felt was right.

and then think how you would feel being held by the old testament example. think about how you would feel for it to be a mortal sin to masturbate because you are wasting potential human life. and realize that it isn't ok to hold someone else to your beliefs that they do not share.


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I'll take two hours in a clinic over 9 months of pregnancy, please.


Would you like a side of guilt/depression with that? There's a reason most women who have abortions only ever have 1.


I'm willing to bet there is considerable less guilt and depression than I would experience if I were to carry a baby to term and give it away.


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I'll take two hours in a clinic over 9 months of pregnancy, please.


Would you like a side of guilt/depression with that? There's a reason most women who have abortions only ever have 1.


I'm willing to bet there is considerable less guilt and depression than I would experience if I were to carry a baby to term and give it away.


People also forget that if abortions were illegal, many mothers would feel resentment toward the child for being forced to bring it to this world when they did not want to. I think it is more of a "sin" to birth a child when you aren't ready to give it a stable life, bring it up comfortably, are happy with having it, etc etc

And don't say "don't have sex then" because that's just stupid. There is no "oh too bad, you had sex knowing the risks now you should keep it" because that leads to the aforementioned resentment.

And personally, if you don't like abortions don't have one. But just because YOU don't like doesn't mean that your get to force YOUR views on anyone else. Pro choice means we support right to choose, not go around and aborting every fetus we find.

And I believe it's when the baby gets a heartbeat. Otherwise it's almost no different than a virus (capsule enclosed with genetic information).


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dek wrote:
that's just the point though.

state a: it is a collection of cells from the parents
state b: it is a human being

if there were a definitive point in time where a baby crosses between state a and state b, then there would be no question. but there isn't.

you can only clearly define the ends. it is most definitely just cells while the sperm are still in the testes and the egg is in ovaries or uterus. and it is most definitely a human being when it is born, separated from the womb, and able to breathe and generally exist on its own.

anywhere between those points is up to interpretation. i have no qualms with your belief of where that line is between the two states, no matter where you would place it.

what criteria do you use? biological development? what is the point at which it is a child and not an internal puddle of slime (which it basically is at conception)? when it gets a heartbeat? at the moment the sperm touches the egg? when it grows arms and legs? when it develops a gender? when it develops a brain?

surely you would come up with an answer to that question, but to ponder the question is hopefully to realize that your answer is probably not what someone else would come up with, and that you have no ironclad reason to choose that particular point in development except for what you felt was right.

and then think how you would feel being held by the old testament example. think about how you would feel for it to be a mortal sin to masturbate because you are wasting potential human life. and realize that it isn't ok to hold someone else to your beliefs that they do not share.
Aren't state A and B the same? You're a collection of cells from your parents... but, in the womb, were you not a human? Your DNA said you were...

I think you're right though - that's where pro-lifers and pro-choicers differ. Pro-choicers look at an embryo as something other-than human - a collection of cells - so it has less human value and is therefore expendable. Pro-lifers look at an embryo and see that it is a human and wish to protect that human life.

Two things: 1) I answered that question already - Life, for me, starts at implantation. 2) Wasting sperm is different than wasting a fertilized egg.
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Aren't state A and B the same? You're a collection of cells from your parents... but, in the womb, were you not a human? Your DNA said you were...

I think you're right though - that's where pro-lifers and pro-choicers differ. Pro-choicers look at an embryo as something other-than human - a collection of cells - so it has less human value and is therefore expendable. Pro-lifers look at an embryo and see that it is a human and wish to protect that human life.

Two things: 1) I answered that question already - Life, for me, starts at implantation. 2) Wasting sperm is different than wasting a fertilized egg.


akina and i could biologically have a child. but right now, my sperm is not her baby.

so no, they are not the same state.


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also, weena, you wouldn't even have to worry about all of this if you would stop inviting people to poke your holes.


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And I believe it's when the baby gets a heartbeat. Otherwise it's almost no different than a virus (capsule enclosed with genetic information).


It's in week 6 that a baby's heart starts pumping its own blood:

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/prenatal-care/PR00112

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Growth is rapid this week. Just four weeks after conception, the neural tube along your baby's back is closing and your baby's heart is pumping blood.


Considering how many abortions happen after week 6.....

Murder. Plain and simple.

But again, I'm pro choice, if people want to be murderers, how can I stop them? I just could never do it.


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