Callysta wrote:
Honestly, I think everyone is reading way too much into the way she phrased it. It sounds like something I might say if some guy I used to date messaged me out of the blue (which still happens on occasion.)
When a chick drops you and then off the face of the planet it is usually because:
a). She isn't into you. If there is no "goodbye," then congratulations, you met a female player.
b). You scare her.
c). Drama in her life.
d). She found someone else.
In all but the third scenario, she isn't interested in you, and if she didn't call you explaining what happened, then the third scenario is irrelevant.
Trust me, her response was pretty nice. It was generic and conveyed nothing other than "Oh hi person I know, this is what I am doing. Call me if you are bored or want to talk about something."
If she was pissed and wanted an apology I am pretty sure she wouldn't have responded or would have indicated that there was an issue. Something like : "WTH are you calling/texting me??? Go to hell ***hole!"
any of you find that last part disconcerting? what does that mean?
and done.