Weena wrote:
Callysta wrote:
TBH, the best way of getting rid of a stalkerish ex is to threaten them with a restraining order. I've only actually needed to follow through on getting one 4 or 5 times. Usually they freak out, realize they are acting a little nutty, and book it. In general, girls will obey a restraining order and back off.
If she is still hanging around after that, you know you have a serious problem. At that point you would have to change your number, move, change your internet passwords and such, and possibly switch jobs. I've had to go through that before. It was not fun :p
The FUCK?
Were you as low standard setting as me, except actually dating people or ???
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Also, Blumpkins are fucked up.
I also don't know how you do that. If you're anything like me you have bursts of pee during the whole dropping process.
Haha, no. Of the people I had to file for an RO, one was the bestfriend of an ex-boyfriend. He threw bottle bombs at my parent's house. One was the ex-gf of my brother-in-law (she thought I broke them up), another was my husband's crazy ex-gf. One was some random guy that became obsessed after the Miss Anaheim pageant (he was really freaky) and only one was someone that I actually dated and couldn't let go.
There have been others that have gotten super clingy after I broke up with them, but they've all laid off when I told them I'd get an RO if they didn't back off. I haven't had a very difficult time obtaining restraining orders. Some of it has to do with the circumstances under which I was having to file them though.