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fuck that

I spilled my coffee writing this post that's some real shit to care about.

Is this some sort of sick joke? Seriously?

My friend killed herself this morning.

I can't even read the thread.

Callysta of Reverence

/hug

Wait what? Seriously?


Wow, bad timing on my/our part.

I hope you and her other friends/family are as OK as you can be in that situation.

Your Pal,
Jubber

AKA "The Gun"
AKA "ROFeraL"

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Your best friend killed himself with complete disregard for your feelings and emotions, not to mention all his relatives, acquaintances and other friends. He didn't care about how you guys would feel and you all failed to keep him from killing himself for whatever reason. You can't be mad at others, like Brykon, for 'joking' about suicide... remember, it was your friend who was the incredibly selfish one who didn't even care about himself...

Your very right in that he disregarded everyone else's feelings. But the comment that someone should just kill themselves so they aren't taking someone elses oxygen is just a incredibly low comment. I cannot be mad at someone saying they disagree with suicide, or think that it is a cheap way to quit life. But I will be fucking pissed at someone who devalues another human being at their lowest moment in life and contemplating suicide and then says they should just kill themselves to stop take their oxygen and space.

Not to mention completely illogical, as matter cannot be created or destroyed no one is wasting anyone's oxygen.

It's an iffy topic for me. I'm pretty sure anyone who's been through anything at all has contemplated it, but I dunno. My cousin might've done it, we don't really know. Died of an OD, but everything about it points to suicide. Was in and out of jail most of his life due to dealing, got out after being in for a couple years only to get caught again like 6 months later, which means another long assed sentence. Seems reasonable that it was suicide, but will never really know.

Some lady who lived in my dad's neighborhood got killed a couple months ago and it's the same as above in a sorts, that what happened isn't actually known. Got hit by a truck in the middle of a road. Some people say she was trying to wave someone over, car lights left on etc, but nobody could find anything wrong with her car afterwards. Guy who hit her said she ran in front, family said it's probably the case since she went through hell for a while. Her son died the year before, she had an arm amputated after being raped and beaten, (though I'm not sure how the arm got messed up to that point) and had lost her job + was losing house.

I can't really say I blame people. I know I'm terrible at coping with things, this past year being really aids for me. I can't really imagine how people who have it way way worse don't off themselves though. If life hit me as hard as the chick above, I know I wouldn't be around anymore.

Kamguh: Fuck you and your avatar. My step mom died of obesity you piece of shit.

My parents were raped by cats at a rave.

RETIRED.
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The world does not stop for you.

If you do not like this thread, hit Back on your browser and mourn your friend in the private and discreet manner his dignity would deserve, not by whining to those who did not know him.

Aestu of Bleeding Hollow...

Nihilism is a copout.

It's been a while since I looked into this, but my understanding is that antidepressants do work well for some people, and especially those with severe depression. Not everyone can break the cycle of depression by themselves, so in those cases taking drugs may be necessary. Also, antidepressants being about as good as placebos doesn't mean that they don't help people - it's just that placebos are pretty effective at treating depression.

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Why all the H8?

I don't think that was anything more than a sharing of concern about a recent personal issue.

Your Pal,
Jubber

AKA "The Gun"
AKA "ROFeraL"

World Renowned Mexican Forklift Artiste

everyday while driving, when some jerk pulls out in front of me or cuts me off, instead of OMG break, i go KILL ME KILL ME KILL ME

is that considered suicide?

I just came out of about 4 years of a pretty severe depression. When it started things were going really well for me, my volunteer work for the social work classes I was doing was extremely rewarding, my life was on a pretty good track. Then for some reason I just didn't care about anything. I completely ignored my girlfriend at a pretty major crisis point in her life, I stopped seeing friends and I dropped out of school.

I knew I wasn't the type to try suicide, but there was such a horrible feeling of hopelessness I was convinced that eventually I would do it anyway. Edit: Antidepressants worked pretty well for me at the time, but I just couldn't stand the thought that I wasn't happy (or at least wasn't over depression), it was just the pills that made me happy.


As to the anger in this thread, we should remember that people find these things funny because of ignorance. They haven't had to deal with suicide, and so to them is it simply a concept, and has not had a real-life impact. For example:



My last girlfriend was raped while she was about 6 and again when she was 20. She was just starting to see a psychologist about it when we started dating. It was horrible. Bringing back up all that shit and having to deal with it is a very difficult thing to do, I went to some of her sessions and we talked about it a lot. It's rough seeing someone you care about deal with that. In addition, because she was open about it, I found out that a surprising number of friends and acquaintances were also raped or assaulted. I've stopped using the word rape jokingly because I understand the actual impact.

Now, I'm not saying that these topics are out of line because this really is an anything goes board, but if you're gonna make jokes about these subjects don't whine when there is backlash, and don't balk at whatever negativity comes your way.




Completely uncalled for. At no point did she say that this thread need not to exist or specifically condemn anyone for posting here. If sharing parts of our personal lives means we shouldn't have posted, this board would be dead. I thought you were turning a new leaf?

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