ignayshus wrote:
Dance around it all you want, but your first post in the thread was to call someone, who had found out that day their friend had committed suicide, an attention whore.
Thankfully she'd decided to avoid the thread so as to not have to subject herself to aestu being aestu, but I find it comical that you'd think a husband would let someone attack his spouse without calling the attacker out. Surely you're not so naive as to not have known what would occur after pressing submit. You yourself have gone to far greater lengths to merely defend your ego.
And I'm sorry, if I dispensed with the pleasantries at 4am, but after watching my wife spend hours going over all her past conversations and beating herself up for not seeing what was going to happen, hearing her swing between composing herself and crying uncontrollably, my patience for your circuitous name-calling bull has worn thin.
As I asked before, the decency is lacking so until an ignore feature becomes available, please keep our names out of your mouth and we'll do the same.
Please agree with my post before yours and move on with it. There is a button at the Bucket Guild Forum Index which allows you the opportunity to create a new thread, possibly titled.... "LEZ FLAME AESTU" or something to that effect.
Also, sorry for your friend's loss.
Personally, I do not agree with it and would never go through with it but it would be a lie if I said I never had the impulse to believe that my problems would dissolve if I had actually suicided. Rationality prevents me from doing it because I remember the people I care about and how they would feel if I did it myself.
That being said, I still think that people should have the right to decide what they want for their life and had I been asked to share my feelings about suicide with your friend, then I would explain to them why it isn't the right decision to make for themselves from my standpoints and hope they would interpret my opinion and use it as their own. If after having heard my view points they decided to still want to do it, then they made a logical decision to kill themselves (from my view point) and there was nothing I could do to prevent them from thinking otherwise. I don't believe in or condone drug usage to alleviate one's mental or social problems. Even when going through medical surgeries, I, as best as I could, tried not to use medicine (particularly pain killers) as much as possible.
