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Is this the year you're testing out the "never stick your dick in crazy" theory for yourself?

If I were you, I'd juggle the idea that she's:
a) bonkers
b) creeped the hell out

It's a nice gesture, sure, but if she made it clear that she didn't want anything serious, if you guys had a little stint and you go out and buy her something near $100 worth of stuff and show up to her family's house, I feel that's beyond excessive.

More information would be nice, such as how "close to dating" you guys were or your age.

RETIRED.
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i'm sorry but everyone who's reading into this emotionless babble that is being said by this serial killer destined aestu and siding with it must not have ever had a girlfriend. sometimes you do shit even if it's overboard for the one you care about. ESPECIALLY if you're young.

let's be real guys we're all nerdy wow players and we all like girls (minus aestu). i KNOW you guys wouldn't just give up on a chick because she got upset at you that you hurt her feelings. you would at least apologize.

Learn the difference!

Indeed, but not having experienced something or having a track record of failure at something makes you unqualified to offer advice.

You look to the people that have demonstrated a track record of success and try to see how their experience can apply to yours.

I don't know enough about the situation to say whether this girl is just being overly sensitive or not (often times both men and women lash out at/about something other than what they are truly upset about) because nobody is rational and clear in their intentions all the time, especially where emotions come are involved.

^these fucking guys

^ Fucks guys

"The fuckers. There, I feel better. God-damned human race. There, I feel better."
— Charles Bukowski

Boredalt - 80 Dwarf Priest - Dissension

^Films it.

Yeah and I could have a shot at a superbowl ring if the object of the game was to see how many times you could drop a pass. Your point?

The world doesn't work that way, so it's far more rational to tailor your response to the actual situation... or you could continue wishing on shooting stars.

Unless you count roofies or alcohol, there's no formula to women.

you just have to do what you think is best.


besides, if you're as young as i think you are bry you won't have to worry about it long.

Ask a woman to pee in their butt. If they get quippy and ask to pee in yours, hand them a funnel. Works every time.

I'll give you the nerd/wow player but I'm not sure where you're going with this "likes girl" comment. Are telling me Aestu is sexist? If that's the case then I disagree with it despite how accurate sexism is. Now, if you're trying to say Aestu doesn't actively pursue women for whatever reason then I again have to agree with Aestu on this one. Maybe you meant something else, I'm not sure. Maybe you should clarify it.

As for giving up? If a girl got upset over something stupid I did which was either meant as a joke or even if she got upset to the extent that this girl supposedly did, that bitch has got to go. She's either A) Not smart enough to process thought rationally. B) Crazy. C) A liar and looking for a way out. (D All of the above. There are very few exceptions in which such a reaction would be allowed or even tolerated.

Well, since multiple people have asked, I'm 16, as well as her.

After talking on the phone last night, things seemed to get better. She was saying more of the stuff of "You shouldn't be saying bad stuff about someone you like." I said "It's still just a game, It's not like I insulted your true self." She couldn't really see that.

It seems as though twords the end of the night she hadn't "accepted" my apology in terms of accepting, but it's more of a time needs to happen thing. Over the span of a few days, I'm pretty much going to have to be completely nice over everything, if that makes scene. She want's to see myself being more nice now over anything. She sees myself as a dick, I don't at all. By a comment so small I would have never thought it would erupt to something like this. I guess I've learned never to tell people anything about a relationship, even if it's the stupidest things in the world. lol

I read the OP and skimmed some of the thread. Here are my thoughts:

1) It does amuse me that the whole ruckus was over wow. Or any video game. Not an important point but it's still funny to me.

2) Regarding Aestu's opinion on the matter... people are irrational. Every person on earth is. If you feel the reason to throw away a relationship is because the other person is being irrational, then you will live alone. QED.

3) She had an emotional reaction to something, and your apology should have elicited a counteracting emotion reaction. In other words, you handled it in the correct manner. You might have scaled it back a bit but that's not really a big deal. It should work. If it doesn't, then to hell with her.

Edit: I just wanted to add one more thought to the second point. Given that human beings have an emotional side (and thus an irrational side), it is actually highly ILLOGICAL to pretend that it either is not there or is not important. To do so is to simply live in a state of perpetual denial about the way the world actually works.

To that point, I would leave this quote from Lenny Bruce:
"Let me tell you the truth. The truth is what is, and what should be is a fantasy. A terrible, terrible lie that someone gave to the people long ago."

In this case, irrational people and the need to cater to emotional reactions is what is, and the idea that you should only interact with other people on a purely rational basis is the terrible terrible lie.

Akina: bitch I will stab you in the face

girls who get emotional over being called bad at a video game when they probabaly are is dumb. For that matter, anyone getting emotional over being called bad at a game is dumb.

That being said, there is such a thing as being too irrational. I can't speak for Aestu but I'm not refering to interacting with people on a purely rational basis. Just that women are 99% of the time not worth the trouble. Now, I'm not going to say I don't have an emotional side or that I pretend it's not there, I just don't need or have any real want of it. I'm pretty sure I could live a full life without a signifigant other and be reasonabally happy. Obviously, chances are I'd be much happier with someone if such a person existed. This isn't to say I shut all possibilities out, just that I'm not going out of my way to find "the one".

tldr: girls are crazy, guys are idiots