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You're gonna learn to detach from people who don't show clear intentions/feelings.

A natural process to becoming a man.

Fair enough, but we've only hung out like 4 times. Other than the occasional flirting, I haven't really made my intentions known. She could logically not have any feelings, or maybe would have feelings but she thinks we're just friends.

Dont you miss the days when you could go up to a man and say "heres 12 cows and half a dozen horses." and the man would reply "fair enough, heres my daughter, just dont beat her too hard."

I am THE man.
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Yeah but you'll learn to control it and keep your eyes on what's important in your life so as you won't change your priorities whenever a woman shows up.

"Go with the flow"

Much like fire, I think the only way to thoroughly learn that is to feel it's heat.

You have entered, THE FRIEND ZONE

9 level 90s and 10 85s, Damn I need another hobby.

The only possible way to escape the friend zone is to start treating her like you're interested in more than friendship. Ask her out to things alone, buy her drinks, compliment her, etc. Or, if you feel it's warranted, just straight up ask her out on a date. The point is though that you have to try and make her view you more than platonically. It might not work, it might just not be in the cards, but there's a good chance you just haven't put yourself out there as an option, so it's not surprising if it hasn't occurred to her to consider you as one.

If she is interested and you never ask her out, that's your fault. If she isn't and you do but she's actually your friend, she'll say no and you'll get over it and you'll probably keep being friends (if you want to, which you might not). Either way, it's better to know and be able to either be with her or move on.

Trust me from experience, the absolute worst is languishing in the limbo between.

Akina: bitch I will stab you in the face

Dude, if you like her just straight-up man up to her and tell her you've got a thing for her. The worst thing that happens is you find out she really values you as a friend and nothing else.

When I first started hanging out with my wife back in college I brought her back to my house where I had a friend living with me. He was in a room with some other people and we stood outside and I said, "Hey, when I introduce you to these guys mind if I introduce you as my girlfriend?" She said, "I'd like that."

My point is sometimes you just have to take the plunge and ask if you want to know how she feels.

Now go get 'er.

Edit: Where at in VA and what's the company?

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The easiest way out of the friend zone is rape.


I jk.

Still though, most of the time its either just sit in the friend zone, or declare you want more and either get out of the friend zone and into her bed, or out of the friend zone and out of her life.

women are very silly about their friend zone.

Akina: bitch I will stab you in the face

I don't recognize the existence of a friend zone.

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I prefer the Akward Zone

1. She feels the same way about you.
2. Who cares about feelings? Move on.

Aestu of Bleeding Hollow...

Nihilism is a copout.

The only reason I suggested first buying her drinks etc is because it's a chance to make a new first impression, so to speak. The first impression or shortly thereafter is when you're usually categorized into romantic material or platonic material. If you were categorized as platonic and you cold ask her out, it won't work. For her, it will come out of left field, and you'll get the same reaction as the Adam and Eve video above. You'd have to change the way she views you first... warm her up to the idea.

Of course, it's always possible she's completely oblivious and won't understand that you're flirting and it will still come out of left field when you finally make the move. But in that case, you probably don't want to date someone that oblivious to you anyways.

Akina: bitch I will stab you in the face