Monotheist wrote:
Grimmgor wrote:
everytime i see these threads i wonder if any of the people who make them have ever lived in a ghetto.
i get that the majority of the people there are black, but nobody ever seems to mention every other person living in these places, who do the same shit and act the same way. everytime you hear the "I WUZ BORN 2 DIS LYFE ITZ HARD 2 GET OUT" it isn't always some half assed excuse.
I'm with you there. I can joke around about it with anyone but honestly, the amount of ignorance most people show towards those of us that used to/still live in the ghetto is rather astonishing. That isn't aimed at anyone here in particular but rather just experiences I've had in my life.
inb4 mexican lived in a ghetto, shocking etc.
we lived in gary, which speaks for itself. moved to indianapolis only to be in a trailer, then a small assed apartment. i've only known a house for about 6 years. TRASH 4 LYFE YNAWW MEEN.
as far as the hispanic/black thing, for us it was just due to the whole GANGSTA ATTITUDE. made no sense, but that was reason enough to hate each other and stir up shit in school and at home.
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That being said, it IS possible to get out. If parents stress education - if kids don't drop out of school in 8th grade to sell rock or join a gang...they can get out. The problem is, I think black culture seems to stress all the wrong ways to success
not disagreeing, it's just growing up in the lifestyle or area changes your look on everything, which just leads to everything else not being as easy or simple as it should be. i read lucinth's story about getting jumped and instantly thought "why doesn't he carry a knife or something". it comes natural to me, even living in some suburb where the most exciting thing to happen is my malamute howling at random sirens that you'd hear go down the street.
ps loosinth this is an acceptable reason that we did not start secret of mana this weekend. however it still must happen.