Azelma wrote:
Part of me feels like butt stuff would be awesome. Then part of me is like "eww yucky"
I mean, there's a ton of prep work too...you gotta buy a homemade enema kit, gotta make sure she's all clean and crazzzzzzzy lubed up with yknow whatever product you're using. Then I assume it's pretty messy, so you don't want to mess up the sheets. I guess you gotta lay a towel down.
Then, if she's never done it before, it's gonna be pretty uncomfortable and painful for her. I've heard most women describe it as kind of like a pleasure/pain thing. Some women like a little pain in sex...don't mind it. However others just can't handle any ounce of pain. Those are the women who wouldn't like anal because obviously you aren't going to be some elastic pornstar right away.
IDK - this is what I can gather from my research on the subject without having any actual experience.
You don't have to do any of that, if you don't mind a little mess. We just went for it. I actually enjoyed it a lot, she felt kind of embarrassed about the dirty part. I don't mind at all though. She got a couple skid marks on the couch, but that was it. Just cleaned up after ourselves afterword. Use lots of lube for her, and go slow on entry. I actually liked the smell of her shit to my surprise... is that weird?
And i forgot to mention, the day after she had some cramping, like a upset stomach. Sorted out over the next day after she went to the bathroom a couple times.