Weena wrote:
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Fair point. I guess I'm saying that kind of situation is much more common with women. Just the nature of sex. Many guys are willing to bang a chick as long as she's "alright" looking even if they have no real interest in her beyond that. I know many, many guys (especially from college) with that philosophy.
I'm observing this.
It's fucking dumb because she's nonetheless aware of his intentions (or lack thereof).
Agreed...but do you mean to tell me that emotion/"love" or "infatuation" has never made you do something irrational or slightly stupid? Has it ever given you false hopes that maybe it might work out because you want it to work out so badly? I know it has for me...I've done some stupid shit due to infatuation (re: busgirl)
Yes, any woman in this situation
should figure it out and not keep coming back and banging the guy who will never be into her for more than a fling.
That said, I know women who gave it up
just once (with the help of alcohol) hoping the guy who friendzoned her would want more and it crushed them. Some of these guys are also assholes who take advantage of the feelings these women have for them (just like women who act like assholes and take advantage of a friendzoned guy who would lie down in traffic for therm).
Not to sound like a broken record, but the whole point is this:
Gender relations can be shitty for both sides, and are shitty for both sides far too often. Every story of a man getting screwed over by an evil bitch woman could be countered with story about a woman getting screwed over by a douche rocket. This is what the forever alone internet bros fail to understand, or accept. They want to think it's only "nice guys" getting screwed over. They want to constantly be the victim. Some women do this too...they want to whine and complain and do the "all men are assholes" routine.
At the end of the day, everyone needs to understand that shitty people exist, and it's up to you to find someone who isn't shitty or idk actually LIKES you as more than friends. They exist. Sitting around and bitching about all the people who don't want to be more than friends with you is a waste of time.