thegodslayer wrote:
Brykon wrote:
Aestu wrote:
I wouldn't have apologized.
Why so? I'm not saying you're wrong in any perspective, I'd just like to hear your side of why.
I would venture to guess it has something to do with why apologize for your opinion etc etc. Could be wrong though, not sure I would be talking women or relationship advice from a guy who has the experience he does.
Pretty much this.
Why care what some person who happens to be female thinks? If she's that much of a ninny because someone told it like it is, who cares, this person is a waste of time.
I don't see the point of being in a friendship or relationship with someone who can't handle honesty. If that is what she wants she can go find some loser to sweet-talk her. People with self-respect don't go for that.
thegodslayer wrote:
Ask dooj or any of the other married guys and or people who have been in a relationship for more than a few months.
You did good with the gestures, made her feel special which is very important to a girl.
Most people are fools.
If fools want to be foolish with other fools, that's their choice. Just don't go head-over-heels in your folly and think you're onto something.
Making this female feel special is ultimately self-defeating because it is a mutually selfish gesture. You cannot build a stable and functional relationship on the basis of flattery. But if all you want is to pad your ego by winning the favor of someone who happens to have homologous chromosomes, go for it.