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PostPosted: Wed Dec 29, 2010 3:44 pm  
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Actually, I've already talked to Dooj about it. He gave me advice, I did it, and she negated what I wrote to her. Oh well lol.
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thegodslayer wrote:
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I wouldn't have apologized.


Why so? I'm not saying you're wrong in any perspective, I'd just like to hear your side of why.


I would venture to guess it has something to do with why apologize for your opinion etc etc. Could be wrong though, not sure I would be talking women or relationship advice from a guy who has the experience he does.


Pretty much this.

Why care what some person who happens to be female thinks? If she's that much of a ninny because someone told it like it is, who cares, this person is a waste of time.

I don't see the point of being in a friendship or relationship with someone who can't handle honesty. If that is what she wants she can go find some loser to sweet-talk her. People with self-respect don't go for that.

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Ask dooj or any of the other married guys and or people who have been in a relationship for more than a few months.

You did good with the gestures, made her feel special which is very important to a girl.


Most people are fools.

If fools want to be foolish with other fools, that's their choice. Just don't go head-over-heels in your folly and think you're onto something.

Making this female feel special is ultimately self-defeating because it is a mutually selfish gesture. You cannot build a stable and functional relationship on the basis of flattery. But if all you want is to pad your ego by winning the favor of someone who happens to have homologous chromosomes, go for it.


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Aestu wrote:

Why care what some person who happens to be female things? If she's that much of a ninny because someone told it like it is, who cares, this person is a waste of time.

I don't see the point of being in a friendship or relationship with someone who can't handle honesty. If that is what she wants she can go find some loser to sweet-talk her. People with self-respect don't go for that.


For someone who actively avoids relationships, you often have solid points on human interactions.

This is all very true.


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I'd have went no thanks. That says something about her character. It doesn't look like a scratch I could live with either, it's a fucking massive crack in the side of that silver vase.

I mean, what are you going to do when you do actually do something that would piss anybody off?

You're going to be an assault victim, is my guess.

-/-/-/-

I'm pretty worse case though. So chances are more that she's going to storm out.

A lot.


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Weena wrote:
I'm pretty worse case though. So chances are more that she's going to storm out.

A lot.


Especially if she thinks you will come crawling back with flowers and jewelry. Some women are like children, if you reward temper-tantrums they will continue to have them because they are effective.


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thegodslayer wrote:
You did good with the gestures, made her feel special which is very important to a girl.


NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

Never make her "feel special," that's the worst thing you can do. That's when she gets the "I'm a special and delicate flower that he can't do without and my shit don't stink," mindset going. In this case, what you did was "hey, sorry, peace offering," which is A-OK, but if she's going to be a bitch after that, seriously, fuck her. Switch factions and camp her ass, IMO.

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Jubbergun wrote:
Switch factions and camp her ass, IMO.


LOL
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Jubbergun wrote:
Never make her "feel special," that's the worst thing you can do. That's when she gets the "I'm a special and delicate flower that he can't do without and my shit don't stink," mindset going.


This.


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Gonna hafta go with Jubber on this one. If you had done something seriously wrong or said something awful I could see it. But off handedly mentioning someone is bad at WoW? CMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWNNNNNNNNNNNNN. And another thing about this story. You shoulda atleast gave the blabber mouth who told spread the info a nice back hand to the chops. I hate people who run their mouth like a sewage pipe. They were probably on thin ice about something themselves and used this to redirect.

TL:DR - a simple apology shoulda been more than enough. Someone needs a fat lip for talking too much. Hope these gestures get you some pussy.


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She raged this hard because you said she wasn't a great wow player?

Jeeezzzuuuusssssssssss, not worth the effort - she needs to grow up/mature a good 15-20 years.


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Azelma wrote:
Yuratuhl wrote:
For a guy who lives on the oh-so-clean Lake Michigan, you're not in much of a position to talk.


Nothing personal. Living in Philly for 14 years had the unfortunate side-effect of making me loathe New Jersey haha

Camden lolol

and i agree

Ryan is this why Gary hates you?


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Seribus wrote:
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For a guy who lives on the oh-so-clean Lake Michigan, you're not in much of a position to talk.


Nothing personal. Living in Philly for 14 years had the unfortunate side-effect of making me loathe New Jersey haha

Camden lolol

and i agree

Ryan is this why Gary hates you?


Yes lol. Try not to tell him about this, but yeah that's the reason.
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Well it sucks how the story turned out, but you did everything that you should've done. I don't see why people are telling you not to apologize that was the right thing to do since you like her. But since she doesn't want to accept the apology I'd put her on the shelf for now. She may come around, but until then try getting over her.


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Well I didn't get a response to the apology yet. She told me we'd talk about it later. Hey, that's better then the other texts I would get.
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